Army-Accountability

It's all about ACCOUNTABILITY

An Accountability Relationship is engaging in a one-on-one relationship that allows you to grow through the challenges of life with someone, while holding each other accountable to serve the Lord and others. Watch video by Pastor Miles

No more slipping in and out of the crowd on Sunday mornings! Being accountable to at least one other fellow Christian is crucial to growing in the Lord. That means you need a Partner to hold you accountable to pray, study the Word of God, worship every week, participate in service, and be a good steward of your resources. In addition, living an accountable lifestyle also means that you should participate regularly in some sort of small group or ministry, where you can get support and encouragement--and give it--as you work through life's challenges.

What does the Bible say about Accountability?

Romans 14:12 says, So then each of us shall give account of himself to God.

In 1 Corinthians 12, we read that Christians are all part of the same body -- the body of Christ -- and each member needs and belongs to every other member.

Galatians 6:1-2 says, Brothers, if someone is caught in a sin, you who are spiritual should restore him gently. But watch yourself, or you also may be tempted. Carry each other's burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.

What is an Accountability Partner?

It's someone...

• You can confide in and pray with (Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their work: If one falls down, his friend can help him up. Ecclesiastes 4:9-10)
• You can trust without fear of rejection or judgement (Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. Matthew 7:1-2)
• You can be completely transparent and honest with
• Who shares a common bond or has been through life experiences similiar to yours
• Who relates to you with an empathic and understanding heart (And he has given us this command: Whoever loves God must also love his brother. 1 John 4:21
• Who encourages you to grow in your spiritual maturity with God (And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds. Hebrews 10:24 encourage one another and build each other up. 1 Thessalonians 5:11

How do I find an Accountability Partner?

Your Rock small group leader or ministry leader can help to connect you with an accountability partner. (And if you don't attend the Rock, ask your pastor or a trusted Christian friend.) While it is not necessary that they be in the same group or ministry with you, it's more convenient. The fewer the roadblocks, the more likely you'll stick with it! Lastly, pray that God would lead you to His chosen partner!

How often should Accountability Partners meet?

You and your Accountability Partner should meet regularly, with contact at least weekly. Face-to-face contact is best, but occasional phone or e-mail may be necessary depending upon circumstances. It's up to you to make it work!

How do I find a small group or ministry to practice accountability in?

If you attend the Rock, there are many ways to get connected to a small group. For starters, pray about it! Then go to www.therocksandiego.org/smallgroups. Ask your friends. Think about what interests you, and see if there's a ministry centered on that interest.